It is true that sometimes our inner self has that urge to always please each other. When we do that, indirectly we expect that they will always like the exceptional treatment we give them. If not, we become discourage, upset and moan... most of the time it is that way.
I had my fair share today. Perhaps pleasing others is one of the characteristic that I have. Most of the time, I would hope my parents, my customers, my friend to be pleased. Most of all I service my car to the best I can, so he is pleased when being driven.
Anyway, for now I think I shall make it a point that pleasing myself as the most important agenda. After all, wasn't it that people say, nothing is more important that making ourselves happy?